One thing is certain, Tantric sex is not for everyone. Tantra requires a level of consciousness that is based on energetic and spiritual insight. In a nutshell, the foundation of Tantric sexual practice is learning to generate copious amounts of orgasmic energy, and steering it up the energetic pathways that target the spiritual faculties that reside in the brain. It is in the brain footing sexual energy, the original energy from which we all sprang, transforms consciousness. In this way, a new perceptual reality can be born that gives birth to Concurrence Consciousness ( Unison ). Saints and sages throughout time have attempted to communicate this “ no - mind, ” pure consciousness state, whereby the special experience is a excitement of peace with all of creation combined with the flourish that divinity is within.
As a Tantra Yoga Instructor, my approach to esoteric manhood is to inspire within you a reinterpretation of your own sexual behavior so that you may come to know sex not only as healthy, wholesome, pleasureful, and fun, but also a vehicle for divine understanding. It should be noted that the true function of orgasm, beyond ecstatic pleasure, is to look after a lift - off that propels us into a totally new dimension of spiritual awareness that yet leads to higher consciousness. Accomplished male lovers learn to savor and e - embrace - t - e - n - d the orgasmic build - up, by withholding ejaculation, as a means of cultivating sexual energy.
It should be noted that tantric sexual techniques were primarily designed for men, since unlike women, men lose vital life - force energy when they ejaculate. This loss of vital energy is reflected in their diminished erectile capacity, the immediate loss of lookout in their partner, the waning of their sexual enthusiasm, the need for sleep and their inability to access the spiritual dimension through sex. Seminal retention was developed not only to reconcile this gender imbalance, but also to ensure complete female sexual gratification.
However, the path to spiritual enlightenment through the vehicle of ecstatic sex requires a sexual skill set that enables a man to surrender sharply into high states of arousal, on the “ cutting edge” of orgasmic release, just before the point - of - no - return, but without spilling over and intense the system. Chronic ejaculators, who are forever short - circuiting the orgasmic build - up with their incessant and generally premature discharges, may be unaware that the physical body has a much greater capacity for vivid pleasure if ejaculation is underground and the system is allowed to stay up and running.
Let’ s not blink that as men, we only experience pleasure until we ejaculate. Thereafter, we enter a less than lively unmanageable accident when our erectile capacity is diminished and our penis does not like to be touched. That in itself wouldn’ t be so bad if it wasn’ t accompanied by a post - ejaculatory letdown that tends to sabotage the close emotional bond that lovemaking induces, and that many women find so appealing. For all these reasons, male ejaculation is a incomparably overrated source of sexual pleasure and calling it the “ climax” of pleasure is really just a bad habit rejected over from early programming.
While virtually every man knows the fleeting pleasure of an ejaculation, to achieve a altogether e - mouth-to-mouth - t - e - n - d - e - d ecstatic response, a method must be industrious just before the point - of - know - return, to prevent, or at rudimentary delay ejaculation. Here’ s how it works! Each time a man approaches the point - of - no - return; he employs a simple technique that contracts the internal muscles used in sex. It’ s coincidental to squeezing out the last drop after urinating, but with a different intent.
This squeezing bag of his “ sex muscles” must be in the form of a spread out clutch until the passion to ejaculate passes and his erection softens. When an ejaculation is successfully averted, we call this a holdback. When properly toned, the sex muscles are well expert to prevent an unwanted ejaculation. Holdbacks assistance not only in prolonging lovemaking, but also building arousal to also peaks once stimulation is resumed. An exceeding honorarium is that the development of the sex muscles provides men with the awesome ability to orgasm without ejaculating. This is expressing being it assures men that there is no pleasure curtailment. After every successful holdback, as away as the weakness to ejaculate passes, stimulation may resume. When the point - of - no - return is once again approached, higher holdback may be buried.
In theory, informed male lovers may enlist an umpteen number of holdbacks in any lovemaking call. With no ejaculation imminent, the lovemaking assignation for the man is free to develop into what has come to be known as habitual, nearly - ejaculation - pleasure - peaks. These pleasure peaks are what amounts to the male chestnut of multiple orgasms that the most awakened women experience. Once a man learns to factor multiple, full - body, orgasmic pleasure peaks in place of a conventional ejaculation - - - any forthcoming ejaculations may be certain considerably irrelevant.
By delaying ejaculation, holdbacks fix up more time for the orgasmic energy to circulate throughout the body until every cell in the body becomes sexually engorged, not just the genitals. Holdbacks also render an tickled pink orgasmic response of just slightly less dolor than a full - blown ejaculation - orgasm, but discrepant ejaculation, they have the advantage of reoccurring again and again. If a man pays stifling reputation, he will note that the most keenly entrancing time that he experiences is the interval right before ejaculation would transpire - - - just beneath the orgasmic necrosis point. Here, exists a very special “ doorway” that is virtually inconsiderable to the obtuse learner. When this threshold is entered thoughtfully, with lament awareness and qualification, ejaculation can be averted, or slow, at leading until your fiancee has had as many orgasms as she desires. Of course, we also are provided with a very much ardent intensity of pleasure.
With practice, any man can learn to successfully acquire this “ doorway” so that the interval just before meridian can be savored and prolonged for maximum pleasure. The key for men is to familiarize themselves with the point just before ejaculation inevitability. It’ s at that point location trained male lovers and their cooperative troop cease all stimulation. They learn to relax in calmness together safely nestled in the ecstatic space between the world of peak arousal and orgasmic release.
Of course, relaxing on the cutting edge is a bit like mobile across a tight rope high dominant the ground. One accidental slip and it’ s over. The challenge for every man is to stay in authority so as not to bring down the system with an unwanted discharge of orgasmic energy. Using a cautionary approach, a Tantric man learns to play on the cutting edge of orgasmic release like a master surfer successfully touring signal after gratified indicate to rampart.
The longer the sexual discharge is slow, the more the arousal heightens until the expanding orgasmic energy at the base of the spinal canal can no longer be contained in the genital area, and so, the energy begins to ascend. The upward movement of energy is entirely general and internal, caravan up the energy pathways like irresistible corollary of ever increasing bliss. This phenomenon is known as “ raising tantric energy” and is the basic roadmap for transforming orgasmic energy into spiritual power. By the time the orgasmic energy ascends into the brain, an alchemical refinement of the energy has taken place and consciousness is transformed.
