Hi, this is Chief Cortez, creator of the Mack Tactics dating system for men.
I want to share with you some tips on how to flirt with women that have worked really well for me.
In my book Mack Tactics I define how human nature is the deciding factor in the way men and
women relate to each other. Every time we converse with a girl, there is so much going on beneath the surface... signals and messages flying back and forth that we aren ' t consciously aware of.
Bear the Untrue signals, and women are going to be instinctively sour off... no matter how
sharp you look, or how clever you are with conversation.
Back the RIGHT signals, and the women are going to feel an undeniable ATTRACTION towards you.
Here are some quick tips on how to flirt with a girl, that are based on human nature:
* When you engage a woman in conversation, be aware of how you angle your body. Men nurture to talk to each other at angles to avoid confrontation. Women face each other head - on and maintain eye contact. You should engage them the same way.
* Handshakes are very important. Oftentimes, this is your first opportunity at " keno " ( establishing physical contact. ) Our hands are filled with tactile nerves. If your handshake is loose and feels rainy, you ' re signaling that you are anxious, and this will naturally raise HER stress levels.
Give her hand a firm, but not bone - crushing, grasp. Remuneration attention to her grip also.
I ' ve found that women who give firmer handshakes promote to be more adventurous. This must come from the detail that they ' re more wealthy socially, and confident in themselves.
* As the conversation develops, use body contact to build the sense of connection and generate glow. Subtly touch her knee as you tell a story. Put your hand on hers for a brief moment, as you both laugh at a pun.
( Her inner forearm is a GREAT spot to use a flirting touch, since this realm of her body is rich with nerves. ) But don ' t look at your hand as you touch her. Just do it, as if it ' s a completely natural wave.
* Women are attracted to too many - explicit men. This suggests high testosterone levels, which is a sign of strength and reproductive ability. If you don ' t have a naturally bottomless voice, lower your tone slightly when you engage her in conversation.
Speaking slower also helps when you are flirting with a girl. A wide voice, combined with eye contact, can have a hypnotic ( and acutely attractive ) pursuance.
Also, talk at the same walk she does. This enhances the sense that the two of your are connecting and bonding.
Digital watch an threatening guy flirt with girls, and he ' ll nearly always speak at a faster coadunate than she does. ( This is very true with " side-splitting guys, " who try to use constant jokes as substitute for real conversation. )
* Mirror her body language. Couples who are attracted to each other nurse to subconsciously " mirror " each other. By mirroring her, you are again building the sense that you are connecting on a heavier level.
* DON ' T fidget. This sends the message that you are nervous, and will trigger the release of stress chemicals in her brain. When you are at peace and relaxed, you encourage her to go with your flow. You don ' t need to use a lot of flirting body language. Just be relaxed and easy, and smile and maintain eye contact.
* When women sense that a bond is developing, her brain will release dopamine, a mood booster. Create this bond by getting her to talk about herself and her interests and passions, and indicate your note with nods and short phrases
( " Oh my Father, that ' s so true. " " Hmm, that ' s really striking. " " Go on, tell me more. " " I completely set. " " I feel the same way " ).
( There are going to be times when you ' ll want to worry her or " neg " her, to build sexual tension, and I paraphrase how to do this CORRECTLY in the Mack Tactics program... but when she ' s speaking about things that matter to her, you always want to recognize to testify to compatibility. )
* Next tip when you are flirting with girls: know that women are instinctively listening for signs of your affable status and / or wealth.
Women are neurotic to go after men who can assure them and proffer for a family. So while it ' s important to authenticate these capabilities, you should keep any references to your monetary or personal success ill-defined.
When you flirt with women it ' s better to make her agog, and increase a sense of mystery around yourself. Instead of answering her pronto when she asks what you do for a living, be nebulous. ( " Let ' s just say I ' m very good at what I do, and to me it ' s a passion, not a job. " )
With your outgoing level, it ' s also better to slip in superficial references. ( We all enmity " name droppers. " ) Siphon the message that you ' re a popular, fine person, but don ' t be distinct about it.
When you flirt with girls, language about your male buddies isn ' t attractive or elegant. Instead, mention your FEMALE FRIENDS to indicate that you have a strong social network. ( Every guy has male friends. Macks also have a network of shivery, fun female friends. )
You can create quick stories when you flirt with women that are loaded with signs of social stratum, without ever sounding Precise, or like you ' re " trying too hard. "
For case, tell her: " This morning was mad. My schoolmate Lisa was out of hamlet on a modeling shoot and I was supposed to pick her up at the airport, but there was an proceeding on the freeway and the traffic was backed up for miles. Fortunately her plane got overdue so I got there on time. "
( The message: you ' ve got a ally who is a female model.,
" Oh, so you like Indian food? I found the best Indian restaurant, I took my amigo Jennifer there a few nights ago to celebrate her job promotion. "
( You ' ve got a female bedfellow who is severe and successful, and you generously took her to coming-out. )
You get the concept. A quick " mention " of your female friends when you flirt with girls sends a powerful message to the woman you ' re speaking to: you ' re popular among other females, which means you must have VALUE. If the girl you ' re conversation to is digging you, this is also going to stir up an instinctual enjoyment of jealousy... and a long to WIN you away from the competition.
Get, YOU are the prize. Now go out there and start dramaturgy like it!
