In this busy age when we’ re always pressed for time, people have forgotten what it’ s like to touch each other just for the pleasure of it. Even if that leisure arises, the inclination is to get engrossed up over ejaculatory orgasms. Admittedly, ejaculatory orgasm produces intense pleasure, but unless it is built up slowly with conscious touch it is more like a sneeze in the groin, a release of built up tension, than a painfully satisfying experience that “ makes love grow” ( love making ).
Unfortunately for many people a sex encounter becomes more a returned masturbation than a real love building experience.
Tantra invites us to take time to thoroughly touch each other to increase arousal across the entire body. Your conscious touch stirs up energy in the form of weak electronic outcome that start flowing, abiding to build up until they become larger upshot that build the entire body. The pleasure flak increase the flow of happy hormones that help ajar up both the heart and the flow of sexual energy.
When I say conscious I beggarly that you are not thinking of something deeper. Your attention is fully on your fiancee, how they breathe and how they take in your touch. If the receiver holds her or his breath and seems to be into her own thinking you might ask if they would like a softer or stronger, slower or faster touch, depending on how you are meeting them when you regard them “ disconnect” from what is happening.
This question will get their attention back and you will get a chance to give them the touch they crave. Sometimes we treat to touch how we want to be touched instead of tuning in and seeing how our boyfriend would like it.
Our skin is our biggest organ and needs caring love and attention. But the Tantric touch goes else than the skin. When you put your intention together with your breath you can feel all the muscles sucking in that attention, which goes all the way down to the bones. Willingly, bones need love and attention, too, and that can be done even without having to use low tissue massage distinction.
Your aim connected with your breath is very powerful and can scan entirely keenly to touch and heal.
Tantric people know that neighboring a boyfriend does not always have to heel in ejaculation. Touch is both salty and healing. The most lucid emissaries of love are our arms and the focal points from which love flows are the palms. So when we touch our loved ones we help them heal from any pain or nostalgia they strength have versed during the day and feel that life is worth living just to be touched by you.
Many women tell me that they often cringe when their men starts closest them through they know it will bound up in intercourse and they might not be in the temper for it. To prevent this from happening I am inviting men to set up a “ just touching” time with your betrothed. And I serve that when even when she gets all juiced up you keep your agreement of “ just touching” during that time. If you do that several times you will build up trust that you are keeping your word and she will start being touched with joy anytime you do so.
And I promise you that both of you will have an famously great time ensuing and making love.
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