Sunday, March 15, 2015

* * * Body Language in the Workplace and Why It Matters




I’ m forever seeing articles on websites, in newspapers and magazines about the body language of dating, but very little coverage is ever disposed up for body language in the workplace.



After all, most of us spend about thirty or forty hours a date working and most of us have to do it beside other people. So it makes sense to identify with your colleagues and clients nearly as well as you find out the moods and attitudes of your friends and family.



Why?



That’ s simple, the more you get people’ s attitudes and emotions about instrument, the more options it gives you as to how you hilt them. The better you shaft people and situations, the more progress you make in your career.



There’ s an elderly saying:



“ It is your Stand, not you APTITUDE that determines your ALTITUDE”



I’ m indisputable you can spot the people in your system that have a “ Can Do Attitude” and those that don’ t. And I’ ll hazard that those that have the “ Can Do” proclivity have completely different body language to those that don’ t.



The “ Can Do” person also seems to know just how to shaft other people and all system of situations instinctively both in their personal and business lives.



The “ Can Do” person is the one the gets noticed and oftentimes promoted, they may not always be good at their job but they have the aptness of getting noticed by the right people, who then count on they are right for the job.



The key to having a “ Can Do” sentiment is to dig the people around you, how they tick, what they want out of their job and life in general.



The more you apprehend people the easier it becomes to have a “ Can Do” positive mental stand being understanding their Non spoken signals, movements and gestures gives you insights into their eventual likely behaviours.



This can alert you to upcoming dire straits, giving you the hope to avoid it by doing something different before it gets to that point or you could even amplify someone’ s good spirit about something to spur even more.



It all starts with peekaboo what their body does, what signals it sends. It’ s conclusive but most people miss the signals they are being sent by others body language because they’ re too in charge up with the spoken language. While the brain is busy thinking the eyes seem to switch off from contemplation the body signals, movements and gestures



Start by taking the time to just note other people in your work environment.









Look at them when they’ re utterance with others, grasp any differences in how they speak with different people.



Are they different with the boss to how they are with you?



Are they different with men and women?



Are they different with confident / shy people?



You’ ll know who the best person is to help you with a particular problem, who’ s the best person to give a certain job that has a specific tail end and who’ s the most reliable.



After all the senescent saying; “ Actions speak louder than words” is oh so very true, as no business can function and survive without the people in it taking motion.



“ Can Do” people sight they “ Can Do” things by the way they act most of the time. Their posture reflects their confidence in their abilities to do whatever is necessary, consistency is the key to reading people.



Everyone has their own idiosyncrasies so you have to go with what you notice most regularly always taking note whenever they step appearance this ornament. These are BIG indicators ponderous has offbeat and gives you an good fortune to find out what before it affects the business:



Posture:



Posture is one of the first detectable behaviours you can stare and research by the British Chiropractic Association found that 61 % of people serve as good posture with confidence and true confidence comes from the mindset in their own expertise to “ Do” things.



Eye contact:



Eye contact is fresh important area of the body language of the “ Can Do” person seeing in most cultures, not all, maintaining good eye contact is a sign or respect. It also shows they are actively listening and taking note of what you say, plus if they’ re looking at you, you can read their facial expressions, as you give them system or ask their supposition.



Head Movement:



Nodding and shaking the head in the right places shows active listening too and “ Can Do” people are for the most part good active listeners.



These are just a few simple areas of easily noticeable behaviour that can help you in your business by getting the right people to the jobs you need doing to keep your business running at the top of its game.



“ Can Do” people keep Companies alive without them you have a “ Can’ t Do” Company and that will drown your business.

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